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I remember the day clearly, when I moved out of home for the first time, what a experience it was. At first I was in “the honeymoon” phase of knowing that I’m no longer confined to home, instead “I’M FREE”! The next phase hit me dead centre in the middle of the eyes, this phase is called “RESPONSIBILITY”. Why do I call it that you ask? Well, its when reality hits you, you need to begin budgeting  your finances wisely.

Overall when I look at the experiences, they were all worth it, I learned so many life lessons. If you are planning to leave home, you have come to the right place for advice, I’m gonna give you some basic tips to assist you making the  process of leaving home a easier one.

 

You Need To Make That Decision To Leave

This is one of the most challenging choices to make before you leave the “strongholds” of home. I’m going to be honest, it will be challenging. Check with yourself if you are ready to leave, always keep in mind that you do eventually need to leave the comforts of home, and gain your own independence and learn how to survive out there.

 

Make Time To Do Research

I can promise you that, once you start planning to leave the comfort of your home, and your parents find out about this plan of yours, they will be asking you so many questions, that you may feel that you have made a decision that you will regret. Trust me, be on the safe side, so some research. If your parents do find out what your intentions are, at least you will be able to show them your research.

Again I mention this, trust me. The moment they get word of your intentions, they will ask you many questions.The most common words you will be hearing are commonly known as the 5 W’s”:

  • WHO?
  • WHERE?
  • WHY?
  • WHAT?
  • WHEN?

Its guaranteed that they will be including these 5 words in their sentences, don’t make the mistake by being under the impression they don’t want you to leave, they want whats best for you, and don’t want to see you getting hurt. They are human after all, and they are scared. Some advice, do make sure where you will be going, a great idea would be to combine rent with a few friends and stay together unless you stay in a res.

 

Talk To Your Parents

Yes, I know its scary to approach them about your plans of moving out, but trust me, when I say this I mean it: TRUST THEM! Be open with your parents, tell them what your ambitions are. The worst that can happen in this scenario is them saying no. The more open about your plans the better. I know of a few people who moved out without asking for help from their parents, within 2/3 months they were back home. As the saying goes “Been There,Done That,Got The T-Shirt”, your parents can say that they have been there and still do have that “T-Shirt”.

 

Finances

If you don’t have a job, I’d strongly recommend that you find one asap, especially if you are wishing to move out. On some occasions the parents will offer to cover your rent, but otherwise its up to you to cover the rest. Its very important that you try to find yourself a job, yes times are tough at the moment for employment, but once you get a job it will be worth it. Having that financial backing for yourself, is critical, its also a perfect oppurtunity for you to learn how to budget correctly.

Just to give you a basic idea on some extra costs:

  • Food
  • Electricity
  • Cleaning products
  • Toiletries

Costs like these which will help you survive as long as you are financially covered.

 

Have A Back Up Plan

A few months before you do actually move out of home, save as much money as you can, just incase of anything  going wrong, which can occur.  Rather have the finances behind you backing you up, as my mom once mentioned  “Be prepared For The Unexpected”. Which is true to what she’s saying. Don’t also get fooled into believing the first place you see is perfect for you, take a look at other places available for rent.

 

BONUS TIP

 

If this offends any parent, I apologize now for what I’m about to say.  Fathers tend to be very supportive of making the decision to move out, especially if they can see that you are ready. Sometimes there’s a small hinder: MOMS! Not being rude, but once you can make your mom trust you enough to leave home, you are sorted. Moms tend to cling onto their children more than a father, and get scared very easily when hearing your intentions. The best is to sit them both down, and be open with them.

 

 

 

 

 

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